I thought it was allergies that were making me feel miserable. Turns out it was something more sinister. Despite not one, but four vaccine shots and boosters, I have contracted COVID. My symptoms aren’t too bad, and I quickly got on one of the anti-viral meds...
Most of us - myself included - are regularly too worked up to get ahold of ourselves and settle down. We are both distracted and exhausted. We are unable to be at rest. This was the idea behind my newsletter and blog post of last week. At the end, I suggested we do a...
I’m not going out on a limb here. Most of us - me included - are regularly too worked up to get ahold of ourselves and settle down. We are unable to be at rest. And by at rest, I don’t just mean the ability to sleep, although THAT certainly is a problem. “40% of...
Which myth have you believed about your calling? Do you mistakenly believe that your calling and career must be identical? Do you hang on to the myth that calling is ultimately about personal fulfillment and happiness? Are you misguided by the idea that when you...
I feel like I can’t say this enough… ”You were built to count as water is made to run downhill. You were placed in a specific context to count in ways that no one else does. That is your destiny.” Dallas Willard, The Divine Conspiracy Whatever your destiny is, it...
3 weeks ago, I asked these questions in my newsletter and blog post: Why are you here? What is it that gives your life meaning? What generates your sense of purpose? What voice nags at you to contribute to humanity or to the world? These are essential questions here...
Several weeks ago, I began a short blog series exploring the myths that people believe about calling. I have coached hundreds of people over the last several years - NFL players, CEOs, retirees, fraternity guys, soccer moms, etc. and these five myths continue to pop...
One of the catalysts in the Big Quit, the recent flood of resignations hitting businesses these days, is the dream of having a job that provides more personal meaning. This is a good thing if the end result…the new job… allows an individual to contribute in...
This quote is still rumbling around in my head…“When we are no longer able to change a situation… we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning. I referenced that quote in my last post about developing resilience in a time of...
It is what it is. Ugh…I can’t stand that phrase. Probably because it sounds too superficial to me. But as glib as it sounds, that expression does capture the shoulder-shrugging reality of the ambiguous losses we’re all facing these days. I’ve been thinking about the...
